something i dont understand &nd maybe y'all can answer for me.....

so ive come to realize men [aka 'boyz'] &nd women [aka 'girlz'] think the same thing....

girls= 'tricks/hoes........'
boys= 'dawgs/players/pimps.......'

but wat im confused about is that not ALLLLL are tricks/hoes or dawgs/players/pimps.....
there are actually GOOD ones out there and because of a previous girl/boy or someone you may know and the actions THEY do effect ppls perspective. and because of THAT....they just automatically ASSUME everryyyyy girl/guy are tricks/players.

and thats where they go wrong....because of their 'insecurities/perspective' it can ruin something that is actually GOOD....or it may effect them soooo BAD they may pass up something/someone thats good.

all im sayin is that it sucks for US that ARE honest and faithful. that when we get in a relatioship its noone else except us and our partner. that noone else matters. i jus wish that the ones with the insecurities or perspective they have put all those away one day so that they FiNALLY see something good for them....because in the end they might jus get stuck with something/someone that doesnt treat them right or ALONE! [because all the GOOD ones are gonna be takin....eventually]

[....jus OPEN yur eyes and realize YOU have something/someone GOOD, and wanting to BE RIGHT HERE.....GOD!....its jus soooo DAMN frustrating!!!....]

why dont they realize????........